Several years ago, a group of students decided to end the school year which was their senior year by living each "last" to its fullest. With energy and enthusiasm they planned "the end". They drank from each drinking fountain to declare which one had the coolest and best-tasting water. They used every restroom in the school to decide which one was the cleanest. They went to the last baseball, soccer, and softball games and track meets to support their friends and school. They attended the last dance, dancing every dance, and they attended their "last" classes and discussed what they had learned, enjoyed and endured. That is the way to "endure to the end."
The end of the school year is difficult, especially as the weather gets warmer and end-of-year tests are taken. As a teacher, I always prayed for wet, cool weather so the kids would remain focused on school longer, especially those students at the end of a "stage", 6th grade, 8th or 9th, 12th, and 16th.
Those senior students had the right idea on how to endure to the end. Instead of drudgery every day, it was an adventure. Which drinking fountain is the best? Which restroom should have I been using for the last three years? Have we ever danced every dance? They looked for ways to enliven their last days of school, not just live through them. How can we help our kids enjoy, not just endure the last month of school?
President Boyd K. Packer said, "True doctrine, understood, changes attitudes and behavior. The study of the doctrines of the gospel will improve behavior quicker than a study of behavior will improve behavior." (Ensign, Nov. 1986, 17) Enduring to the end is doctrine, a gospel principle. Nephi taught that it wasn't enough to just get on the path but one had to "press forward...and endure to the end." (2 Nephi 31: 20) It is not enough to just go to school but one must press forward, learn much and graduate! Teaching this principle and guiding them to apply it will be one of the most important things they learn in their life.
Pres. Gordon B. Hinckley said, "Life is not just to be endured, but enjoyed." (New Era, Oct. 2001, 4) Those seniors didn't simply wait for time to pass, they found ways to enjoy the time. Everyone needs something to look forward to. They looked forward to the best drinking fountain hunt each day. What does your student need? What is something they could look forward to? How can you help them? Perhaps it's as easy as marking off the day on the calendar, or taking off another construction paper loop from the summer advent calendar. Maybe it's the end of school year party with friends and a daily preparation for it. Or possibly your student's graduation is in jeopardy and each day is one piece of the graduation puzzle to complete late assignments, take tests, and make-up time for tardiness and absences. Observe your kids and how their behavior changes as the school year draws to a close. Discuss your observations with them. Brainstorm "endurance" techniques, be creative, experiment, and throw in an occasional parent surprise to keep them on their toes.
Sis. Charlynn Anderson tells of the Spirit whispering to her "just endure to the end of today." (Ensign, Aug. 1982, 68) She endured her challenge a moment at a time. Sometimes we look at all of the work to be done and become overwhelmed, but a school year is marked first by periods or subjects which become days then weeks, and finally terms. "Today, while the sun shines, work with a will; Today all your duties with patience fulfill." (Hymn 229)
As an inexperience first year teacher, I saved all the "fun" stuff for the last two weeks of the school year. We made crepes, watched a French movie, played Mille Bornes and became more and more miserable. I learned quickly that the best way to endure to the end of the school year was not to play but to work. My second and subsequent years of teaching were filled with speaking, listening, writing, and reading French with a cumulative final test the last day of class while the fun cultural activities were sprinkled throughout the year. The end of the year sped by and my students and I enjoyed the class and one another much more.
The drinking fountain by the office had the coolest, best-tasting water; the restrooms by the music rooms was the cleanest; the athletes who played spring sports were surprised to see a student crowd; dancing every dance was exhausting. Enduring to the end done right may feel like play, not work.
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